Need to be Nurtured

I'm here to help you allow that nurturance in after decades of resisting and seeking, rejecting and craving it.

I'm Jada, a feminine spiritual healing facilitator, mom of two, and owner of Selah Space, a holistic wellness coop. I help millennial women, first born daughters, and "strong, independent women" lean in to their healing journey in away that sets down the force, and embraces the art of receiving.

Need to Be Nurtured is a sacred space of education and curated healing experiences that will help you to heal from your mother wounds, and begin to feel whole and healed, mother authentically, and daughter safely.

Keep reading to see how the 4 month program is exactly what you need.

That need is often clouded by generations of Mother Wounds.

Mother Wounds that need healing. This is the place for that.

What is a mother wound?

A mother wound is defined as "a set of internalized limiting beliefs and patterns that originates from the early dynamics with our mothers that causes problems in many areas of our adult lives, impacting how we see ourselves, one another, and our potential.

-Bethany Webster, Discovering the Inner Mother

How do mother wounds show up? They can look like any of the following:

And still experience mother wounds.

That's because we all need three things from our mothers:

Nurturance

Guidance

Protection

And we all need them in unique, specific-to-me ways. So even if your mom is incredibly nurturing, offered sound guidance, and protected you from all she could...you still may have healing to do. Mother wounds also come in layers. So even if your mom met all your needs exactly as you needed, if her mom didn't meet her needs, you may be holding those wounds for her in your body (this is a generational mother wound). And we live in a society that is incredibly hard on women, especially mothers, which can also have a damaging effect (This is a cultural mother wound).

So no, this program is not a place to dump all over your mom. This is a place to heal from what has inadvertently, and often without knowing, been holding you back from being the woman you want to be.

Weekly Live Calls:

Each Thursday, at 11:30am CST, you'll hop on a call (or catch the recording), where we will heal with wisdom, the wounds that inform our spirits.

Weekly Healing Prompts:

You can also call it homework. Along with the replay of the weekly live call, I'll send you some short and sweet journal prompts. And before you write off journaling, let me just say that you are more than worth the 3 minutes of time and attention to self it takes to journal. And that's a mother wound we can heal from together.

Monthly 1:1 Healing Sessions

After registering, you'll be directed to a scheduling page where you will schedule 4 1:1 calls. This is the space where you and I will use Reiki, Spiritual Direction, Meditation, and Brainspotting to heal from those mother wounds we've discovered in our weekly learning.

Month 1: How The Body Holds Your Pain
Week 1: We will address the 3 layers and sources we can experience Mother Wounds from
Week 2: We will learn how our minds store and often repress memories and how this trauma response is playing a role in protecting you.
Week 3: We will get to know our nervous system and how it's been working so hard for us for all of these years. Even when it comes to little things you never think about.
Week 4: We will connect with our inner child and look back on our childhoods without judgement. We want to see it all at face value so that we can then see what we made our childhood experiences mean.
Month 2: Clarifying Roles and Respobsibility
Week 1: We will learn the differences between Blame, Responsibility, and Reasons for the behaviors we identifies last month
Week 2: We will enter into a state of understanding. Where was mom coming from?
Week 3: We will consider how Mom's relationship with Dad and the patriarchal society we live in factors into our woundings.
Week 4: We will learn about the Money-Sex-Power triangle and what it can teach us about what we need to heal
Month 3: In the Here and Now
Week 1: We will explore how the feelings we have toward our mothers are often, inadvertently placed on God and play with how this is impacting our understanding of ourselves.
Week 2: Safety is something we all need to feel regularly, though that may not be our norm. We will explore attachment theory and how our style of attachment is leading our habitual behaviors
Week 3: Understanding what we were taught about our worth is a critical piece of this puzzle. We will play with the idea of boredom and what to do with it.
Week 4: We will spend this lesson discussing how our sense of loneliness, our unhealthy attachments and enmeshments, and our self-sabotage are informing all relationships we are a part of.
Month 4: Settling into a New Mother Experience
Week 1: We will experience practical ways to open up to being nurtured.
Week 2: We will learn how to and practice articulating our needs and desires.
Week 3: We will settle in to our own authentic feminine nature
Week 4: We will explore how this experience is shifting our own experience of motherhood and how to continue to support that experience moving forward.

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The cost of the program is $2000 in total, or $500 per month. Unless you don't register until the last day, which is March 1st, you'll make your final payment in May.

Each month includes 4 live, 1 hour calls which are designed to educate and bring wisdom and understanding to what you're experiencing.

There are also weekly journal prompts that won't take up too much time or energy, but will allow you to bring that understanding into your specific experience of your mother wounds and prepare you for your healing session.

Our 1 hour, 1:1 healing session is carefully curated to heal a specific aspect of your mother wound so you see miraculous healing each month.

Of course! This healing isn't just about your relationship with your mom in its current state! It's about connecting with the inner child who is hurting and helping her to see she is safe and loved, so that your relationship with your mom and yourself, and even your children, can be strong and safe as well.

This also applies if you have a terrible relationship with your mom, or you have no relationship with your mom. If that's something you'd love to see changed, it's a beautiful miracle to be working toward in this program!

Because the program is completely online, I have designed for you Four healing sessions that will work beautifully through Zoom. Two of them are brainspotting sessions (unless you are currently doing brainspotting or EMDR with a therapist. I don't like to interfere with their great work so I have an alternate option for you in that case). The other two healing sessions combine guided meditation and energy healing.

The energy healing I do is faith based and is utilized to help release stuck and stagnant energy that is keeping you in habitual response patterns that don't serve you any more. My clients report experiencing a lightness, peace, and relaxation, as well as a release of heavy emotions.

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